I don’t really mean to be, but these days I find that I’m a bit elitist, turning up my nose at most things. Food for example– if it’s not spectacular, not amazing, if it’s just mediocre, it might as well be horrible! I just can’t bring myself to put it in my mouth– it’s like… not worthy of entering my body. Haha. I usually also won’t go to see a movie unless I’ve heard it’s incredible, or if it’s so bad that it swings back around to being incredible. I won’t touch bagged tea. The only shampoo that will do for me is this stuff that is $20 per little bottle and makes my hair super shiny, and I buy the most expensive, softest toilet paper in the grocery store. It’s mostly little things that I’m elitist about– soft toilet paper is probably the cheapest way possible to feel luxurious.
I spent my middle school and high school years, though, in a small sleepy town in Mississippi, and this somehow has gnawed a few holes in my elitism. I love all sorts of down-south foods– purple hulled peas, collard greens, candied yams, and of course, fried anything. Though I might still be slightly elitist about this– my favorite restaurant at home, Walnut Hills, serves vegetables that they grow in the garden right outside! Also, coming of age in the south instilled in me a tolerance for country music that occasionally even veers into liking– John Denver, Tanya Tucker, Tim McGraw & Faith Hill, and most recently Taylor Swift.
Don’t judge, okay. She writes about boys and heartbreak, songs that will remind you of your first crush, in a manner that is not at all annoying– like someone who is experienced but managed not to become jaded, someone charmingly in turns levelheaded and silly. Which is impressive for an 18 (well now 19) year old I think. And, it’s country, so, it’s not at all pretentious. Also Taylor sounds like a super ridiculously cute person, a person I’d want to have giggly sleepover parties and roast smores with. In her youTube channel she writes that she is waiting for a guy who has great hair and an immature sense of humor. Those are a pretty good 2 requirements, if one were only allowed 2 requirements for a boy!
It’s a strange day when I’m thinking whistfully of Vicksburg, Mississippi.